"Sir, I did it" |
From the very start we are on the wrong
side of God and after the initial fall the devil has very little to do with it
but rather it is our own sinful nature causing all the problems: Psa 51:5 "Behold, I was shapen in iniquity; and in sin did my mother
conceive me." Throughout life man can find it difficult to take
responsibility for his/her sinful condition; man generally (with rare
exception) will try and move responsibility from themselves to another and try
and convince others why it is plausible to blame another. What we frequently
hear people say is: "It’s not my fault". I have gathered a few
examples of how men and women try and shift the blame from themselves to
others. It’s not so much that we are trying to make anyone to look bad, it’s
more that unless we are intellectually honest about the truth of our condition
there cannot be any remedy. Topping the list is "The Devil made me do
it"
The Devil made me do it - Eve started
this one:
Gen
3:13
"And the LORD God said unto the
woman, What is this that thou hast done? And the woman said, The serpent
beguiled me, and I did eat." Let me put this in a different
perspective. Eve desired something God forbade and she reached out her own hand
and took the fruit and with her own mouth she ate it and disobeyed the Lord.
The devil and the fruit were not the problem. The Devil did not force her at
gunpoint to eat nor did the fruit attack her forcing her to swallow it, no Eve
sinned and broke Gods commandment because she desired to do something wrong. Nobody
is to blame here but Eve, the Devil did not make her do it.
It’s My Spouses Fault - Adam started
this one:
(Any other person to blame will do)
Gen
3:12
"And the man said [to God], The
woman whom thou gavest to be with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did
eat." Adam blamed his spouse. Adam is faced with a choice, it is his
to make. He looked at Eve, considered the commandment of God and still ate the
fruit. Eve did not force Adam, Adam sinned of his own free will because if he
had a heart to do right he would have refused, presented his wife to the Lord
and interceded for her. Instead, he just went along with it and disobeyed.
My ancestry made me do it
"This is the just the way I was
born, it's not my fault". My father was a thief, my mother was a drunk, my
family line gave me this propensity and it’s not my fault. I doubt in the light
of eternity this will carry much weight because we have the power of prayer and
the throne of grace.
Peer pressure made me do it
Saul's sin greatly when he offered a
sacrifice in 1 Samuel but it is interesting what he says to justify his
actions. He said, he forced himself to sin because of the people and because
Samuel himself did not come when he was supposed to: 1 Samuel 13:10-13 “And
it came to pass, that as soon as he had made an end of offering the burnt
offering, behold, Samuel came; and Saul went out to meet him, that he might
salute him. (11) And Samuel said, What hast thou done? And Saul
said, Because I saw that the people were scattered from me, and that thou camest
not within the days appointed, and that the Philistines gathered themselves
together at Michmash; (12) Therefore said I, The Philistines will
come down now upon me to Gilgal, and I have not made supplication unto the
LORD: I forced myself therefore, and offered a burnt offering. (13)
And Samuel said to Saul, Thou hast done foolishly: thou hast not kept the
commandment of the LORD thy God, which he commanded thee: for now would the
LORD have established thy kingdom upon Israel for ever." Saul forced himself
to sin because of peer pressure; again, no gun to the head Saul did this of his
own free will and nobody was at fault but Saul. People do all kinds of horrid
things today and justify it because of peer pressure. They violate their own conscience
and do things that will haunt them the rest of their lives. The secret to being
set free is not to blame others but to take responsibility.
Society made me do it
“It is not your fault, society drove you
to it.” This is the famous line used by defense attorneys and mothers. “Johnny
is a good boy, he just got in with a bad crowd” The cards were stacked against
me from the beginning and I didn’t have a chance. This is where we are at in
America right now. We are playing a game of identity politics where everybody
is a victim. Nobody is responsible for their own character, if they steal it is
because society owes them anyway. If they commit rape or murder it’s not their
fault, they were forced down this route by society. This is a falsehood and
does not help anyone in the long run. The reality is everyone one has the
ability to decide who they will be, they have a choice and when they make their
choice to serve their own selfish desires then no one is to blame but themselves.
Blaming society never fixed any problem. I am not saying society cannot be
cruel, nothing of the kind, what I am saying is what we do in society is all on
us.
What is the honest to goodness answer?
George Washington (allegedly) said; "I did it, I cut down the cherry
tree". It wasn’t the devil, it wasn’t my spouse or another, it wasn’t my ancestry
not peer pressure, it wasn't society that forced me down this road nor was it
the environment. I picked up the ax and with my two little hands I did the
naughty deed. "I did it and I take full responsibility for my own
actions".
Let’s return to our sinful condition for
a moment, considering the sacrifice of Christ on the cross, it was as if collectively
we said, "Punish Him for me". Trust me, Christ did no sin and He
committed no crime, we are all the guilty ones. He was punished for me, that is
the cold hard fact and any other confession will not bring remedy to my fallen,
wrath stricken condition. Simple honesty and simple confession will bring
remedy. There has only been one who was never guilty of sin and He was punished
for us all. He was whipped, beaten, humiliated and murdered for our sin, the
least we can do is acknowledge it (our sin and His atonement for it). God has
required of me personally to acknowledge this, not when I said the sinner
prayer at the beginning of my conversion but decades after my salvation and not
in the privacy of my prayer closet but I wept secretly in a public place
turning my head towards the window while my heart was pricked and tears
streamed down my face. Making excuses isn't the secret to true forgiveness and
true repentance. It is not the foundation to real healing of our wrong ways and
complete deliverance.
This is what God said to His people
(paraphrased), “Stop trying to shift the blame and find loopholes, I am merciful
God who pardons sins and bring deliverance”. Jeremiah 3:12-13 v 12 “Go and
proclaim these words toward the north, and say, Return, thou backsliding
Israel, saith the LORD; and I will not cause mine anger to fall upon you: for I
am merciful, saith the LORD, and I will not keep anger for ever. v 13 Only
acknowledge thine iniquity, that thou hast transgressed against the LORD thy
God, and hast scattered thy ways to the strangers under every green tree, and
ye have not obeyed my voice, saith the LORD.”
Consider that all God wants to do is
restore and put us back into right standing with Him. Psa 32:1 "Blessed is he
whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. v 2 Blessed is the man
unto whom the LORD imputeth not iniquity, and in whose spirit there is no guile
[deceit]."
But here is the problem: Psalm 32:3 "When I kept silence, my bones waxed old through my roaring all
the day long." There was a period when David was in denial of His sin,
perhaps blaming others, and God dealt with him to get an honest confession from
him. Some conjecture it was a physical ailment as he talks about his bones
being afflicted.
In Prov
28:13 we read "He that covereth
his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall
have mercy." Psalm 32:4 "For day and night thy hand was heavy
upon me: my moisture is turned into the drought of summer." Gods hand
was heavy upon this man to get him to confess and confess David did. What is
the mind of the Spirit, is it not to bring everyone to a confession of
repentance? We are not told of the wrath of God to bring us to repentance but
it is the goodness of God that brings true acknowledgment and repentance. Rom 2:4 “Or despisest thou the riches of his goodness and forbearance and longsuffering;
not knowing that the goodness of God leadeth thee to repentance?”
Psalm
32:5
"I acknowledged my sin unto thee,
and mine iniquity have I not hid. I said, I will confess my transgressions unto
the LORD; and thou forgavest the iniquity of my sin." Listen, it is
really quite simple. 1 John 1:9 "if we confess our sins, he is faithful
and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
The idea of this little essay is not to make people feel bad but rather to help
them get free; the moment we come to the place of honest confession and say,
"It was me, I got angry and lost my temper" or "it was me, I
committed that sin" the sooner we will find true mercy and forgiveness.